Why is my family so ghetto?

before the funeral my cousin wanted to fight the other cousin they started yelling in a ghetto way and someone had to make them stop. when we were going to the funeral i asked where it was going too be and my mom told me to shutup and stop being so rude. im well behaved so i dont get it. my mom friend called and yelled hey were the funeral going to act like we were going to a party. my mom friend made come to the front because i was in the back and gave me a nasty look this not right. im the smart one and all they care about is themeselves