what do I do about this guy!?

Okay I'll try and keep this short problem 1. -I've only had one boyfriend and he was always more of a friend -he's had heaps -I don't want to be just another girl problem 2. -I asked him if he wanted to get a hotel room (we are both 19 and still live at home) -he didn't seem that keen -was he a)just surprised b) doesn't want to because he doesn't really like me (I'm pretty sure he does, hasn't said I love you yet :/) c) a virgin (fml) what do I dooooo