Am I being irresponsible?

My gf is pregnant, both of us are 26, and both of us want the baby. I am currently unemployed, and so is she. I WANT this child and I am willing to take the responsibility, but everyone in my family is telling me to tell my gf to have an abortion because I'm not independent yet. Everyone thinks I'm a loser. What should I do? What would be a responsible decision?