Why should men respect women if women don't respect men who respect them?

A man who truly respects a woman is seen as weak by the woman. A man who sees women for the lesser beings that they really are is respected by women. If a man tries to hold a woman to high moral standards because he fully values her, she sees him as a pure weakling. But if a man degrades a woman & encourages her to degrade herself, she sees him as a dominant male to be respected. Therefore, why is it right for men to respect women?