is he playing games or really interested?

when an ex contacts you after 4 years of no contact, wants to hang out almost every weekend have turned him down every weekend for the past 2 months been traveling and busy and has called and said i miss you. we broke up in 08, both were really young! but have had hung out a few times since we broke up but havent seen him in about 4 years now. Games or Genuine? have left out details but thats the gist.