Is this emotional abuse from my family?

More specifically its usually from my cousins on my moms side. I have a big family, with mostly women. When it's someone's bday party and if its just a regular hangout, I'm always given the silent treatment. They expect me to be this talkative girl, but I'm not like that, (I used to be). They constantly bring me down and I used to be close with 2 of my cousins but not anymore. I feel like my one cousin (female) hates me cause she's always giving me dirty looks. In general, my family is just plain rude to me emotionally and verbally. Screw them.