I'm an extremely imperfect girl- according to society. MUST READ pretty please?

I have short hair- boys like long hair I'm fat- boys like slim girls I'm black (medium tone)- boys like light girls I'm not fashionable and can't afford nice clothes- boys like fashionable girls in designer clothes I'm unconfident and boring- boys like confident interesting girls I don't have friends- boys like girls with cliques. Do basically I'm unspeaking in every way. What can I do? Oh and I do have a job :) I'd say I'm fairly respectable but just a friend zone girl even though I can be flirtatious